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<\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\nAnnika si tehdy mohla \u0159\u00edct, \u017ee za rozpad jejich vztahu m\u016f\u017ee jej\u00ed vzhled. Mohla se uzav\u0159\u00edt do sebe a uv\u011b\u0159it tomu, \u017ee u\u017e nen\u00ed mo\u017en\u00e9 nic zm\u011bnit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Jen\u017ee potom se setkala s novou partnerkou sv\u00e9ho b\u00fdval\u00e9ho man\u017eela.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
A zp\u016fsob, jak\u00fdm se na ni tato \u017eena pod\u00edvala, v n\u00ed n\u011bco zlomil.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nebo mo\u017en\u00e1 naopak probudil.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Annika se nedostala do sv\u00e9 situace ze dne na den. T\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 260 kilogram\u016f nebylo v\u00fdsledkem jedin\u00e9ho rozhodnut\u00ed, jedin\u00e9ho j\u00eddla ani jednoho \u0161patn\u00e9ho obdob\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Takov\u00e9 zm\u011bny obvykle vznikaj\u00ed postupn\u011b.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u010clov\u011bk za\u010dne n\u011bco odkl\u00e1dat. Pohyb je obt\u00ed\u017en\u011bj\u0161\u00ed. N\u011bkter\u00e9 \u010dinnosti, kter\u00e9 byly d\u0159\u00edve samoz\u0159ejm\u00e9, za\u010dnou vy\u017eadovat v\u011bt\u0161\u00ed \u00fasil\u00ed. P\u0159id\u00e1 se \u00fanava a s n\u00ed men\u0161\u00ed ochota n\u011bco m\u011bnit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
A \u010d\u00edm d\u00e9le tento kolob\u011bh trv\u00e1, t\u00edm obt\u00ed\u017en\u011bj\u0161\u00ed je z n\u011bj vystoupit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pro Anniku se nav\u00edc v\u0161echno spojilo s osobn\u00edm \u017eivotem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Jej\u00ed man\u017eel se rozhodl odej\u00edt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
A nebylo to proto, \u017ee by si pot\u0159eboval d\u00e1t od vztahu pauzu. Ode\u0161el za jinou \u017eenou.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pro Anniku to znamenalo nejen konec man\u017eelstv\u00ed, ale tak\u00e9 bolestivou konfrontaci s ot\u00e1zkou, kterou si mo\u017en\u00e1 u\u017e n\u011bjakou dobu kladla sama.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Byla jej\u00ed v\u00e1ha d\u016fvodem, pro\u010d ji p\u0159estal milovat?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Byl jej\u00ed vzhled t\u00edm, co rozhodlo o jej\u00ed hodnot\u011b?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
A pokud ano, znamenalo to, \u017ee se mus\u00ed zm\u011bnit kv\u016fli n\u011bmu?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pr\u00e1v\u011b v t\u011bchto chv\u00edl\u00edch b\u00fdv\u00e1 \u010dlov\u011bk nejzraniteln\u011bj\u0161\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Rozchod dok\u00e1\u017ee p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010dit i siln\u00e9ho \u010dlov\u011bka, \u017ee s n\u00edm samotn\u00fdm je n\u011bco z\u00e1sadn\u011b \u0161patn\u011b.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Annika ale pozd\u011bji zjistila n\u011bco d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9ho.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nemusela dokazovat svou hodnotu sv\u00e9mu b\u00fdval\u00e9mu man\u017eelovi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Musela ji znovu naj\u00edt sama v sob\u011b.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nejt\u011b\u017e\u0161\u00ed chv\u00edle p\u0159i\u0161la p\u0159i setk\u00e1n\u00ed s jeho novou partnerkou.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Annika si jej\u00ed pohled zapamatovala.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nemusela padnout \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e1 ur\u00e1\u017eka.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nemusela zazn\u00edt jedin\u00e1 krut\u00e1 v\u011bta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
N\u011bkdy \u010dlov\u011bka zas\u00e1hne pr\u00e1v\u011b to, co nebylo \u0159e\u010deno.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pohled druh\u00e9ho \u010dlov\u011bka m\u016f\u017ee vyvolat stud, vztek, l\u00edtost nebo pocit pon\u00ed\u017een\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
A pr\u00e1v\u011b tehdy se Annika rozhodla, \u017ee u\u017e nechce d\u00e1l \u017e\u00edt zp\u016fsobem, kter\u00fd ji samotnou ni\u010d\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nebyla to podle v\u0161eho jednoduch\u00e1 my\u0161lenka typu: \u201eOd z\u00edt\u0159ka budu jin\u00e1.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Takov\u00e1 rozhodnut\u00ed zn\u00ed p\u016fsobiv\u011b, ale skute\u010dn\u00e1 zm\u011bna b\u00fdv\u00e1 mnohem m\u00e9n\u011b dramatick\u00e1.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Za\u010d\u00edn\u00e1 mali\u010dkostmi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Jedn\u00edm rozhodnut\u00edm.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Jedn\u00edm dnem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
A potom dal\u0161\u00edm.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nejv\u011bt\u0161\u00ed p\u0159ek\u00e1\u017ekou toti\u017e neb\u00fdv\u00e1 samotn\u00fd za\u010d\u00e1tek. Mnohem t\u011b\u017e\u0161\u00ed je pokra\u010dovat ve chv\u00edli, kdy prvn\u00ed nad\u0161en\u00ed zmiz\u00ed a v\u00fdsledky je\u0161t\u011b nejsou vid\u011bt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Annika se rozhodla sv\u016fj \u017eivot zm\u011bnit radik\u00e1ln\u011b.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Podstatou jej\u00ed prom\u011bny v\u0161ak nebylo jen \u010d\u00edslo na v\u00e1ze.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
To je d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kdy\u017e \u010dlov\u011bk dlouhodob\u011b bojuje s vysokou hmotnost\u00ed, nesta\u010d\u00ed obvykle pouze cht\u00edt vypadat jinak. Zm\u011bna m\u016f\u017ee znamenat \u00fapln\u011b nov\u00fd vztah k pohybu, j\u00eddlu, ka\u017edodenn\u00edm n\u00e1vyk\u016fm i vlastn\u00edmu t\u011blu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
A p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm vy\u017eaduje trp\u011blivost.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Prvn\u00ed dny nemus\u00ed p\u0159in\u00e9st \u017e\u00e1dn\u00fd velk\u00fd v\u00fdsledek.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Prvn\u00ed t\u00fddny tak\u00e9 ne.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u010clov\u011bk se m\u016f\u017ee sna\u017eit a p\u0159esto se r\u00e1no pod\u00edvat do zrcadla a st\u00e1le vid\u011bt stejn\u00e9ho \u010dlov\u011bka.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pr\u00e1v\u011b tehdy se mnoho lid\u00ed vzd\u00e1.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Annika se ale podle p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhu rozhodla vydr\u017eet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ne proto, aby se jej\u00ed b\u00fdval\u00fd man\u017eel vr\u00e1til.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ne proto, aby se pomstila jeho nov\u00e9 partnerce.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
A dokonce ani proto, aby jednou n\u011bkomu dok\u00e1zala, \u017ee se m\u00fdlil.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Postupn\u011b se jej\u00ed d\u016fvod zm\u011bnil.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Cht\u011bla znovu z\u00edskat kontrolu nad vlastn\u00edm \u017eivotem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Takov\u00e1 cesta nen\u00ed p\u0159\u00edm\u00e1.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
N\u011bkdy p\u0159ijdou dny, kdy \u010dlov\u011bk ud\u011bl\u00e1 v\u0161echno spr\u00e1vn\u011b.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Jindy se mu neda\u0159\u00ed v\u016fbec nic.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
A pr\u00e1v\u011b proto m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt zm\u011bna tak psychicky n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00e1.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kdo \u010dek\u00e1 okam\u017eit\u00fd v\u00fdsledek, snadno ztrat\u00ed motivaci.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kdo ale pochop\u00ed, \u017ee ka\u017ed\u00fd den je pouze dal\u0161\u00ed krok, m\u00e1 v\u011bt\u0161\u00ed \u0161anci pokra\u010dovat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Annika musela p\u0159ekonat nejen fyzickou str\u00e1nku sv\u00e9 situace, ale tak\u00e9 to, co se b\u011bhem let usadilo v jej\u00ed hlav\u011b.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pocit selh\u00e1n\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Stud.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Strach z pohled\u016f ostatn\u00edch.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
A mo\u017en\u00e1 p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010den\u00ed, \u017ee jej\u00ed hodnota z\u00e1vis\u00ed na tom, jestli ji n\u011bkdo jin\u00fd pova\u017euje za dostate\u010dn\u011b atraktivn\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Rozchod s man\u017eelem j\u00ed p\u0159inesl bolest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sou\u010dasn\u011b se v\u0161ak stal bodem, od kter\u00e9ho za\u010dala p\u0159em\u00fd\u0161let o sob\u011b jinak.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
To je jeden z nejv\u011bt\u0161\u00edch paradox\u016f podobn\u00fdch \u017eivotn\u00edch p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh\u016f.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ud\u00e1lost, kter\u00e1 \u010dlov\u011bka nejd\u0159\u00edve zlom\u00ed, se n\u011bkdy pozd\u011bji stane okam\u017eikem, od kter\u00e9ho za\u010dne stav\u011bt sv\u016fj \u017eivot znovu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Roky ub\u00edhaly.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
A zm\u011bna, kterou Annika zah\u00e1jila, postupn\u011b p\u0159estala b\u00fdt pouze rozhodnut\u00edm.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Stala se sou\u010d\u00e1st\u00ed jej\u00edho \u017eivota.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ne\u0161lo u\u017e o jeden pokus.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ani o kr\u00e1tkodobou snahu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Byla to cesta, b\u011bhem n\u00ed\u017e se musela znovu nau\u010dit vn\u00edmat vlastn\u00ed t\u011blo a sv\u00e9 mo\u017enosti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
A potom p\u0159i\u0161el okam\u017eik, kter\u00fd p\u0159ekvapil i lidi kolem n\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Jej\u00ed prom\u011bna byla natolik v\u00fdrazn\u00e1, \u017ee ji po letech mnoz\u00ed t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 nepozn\u00e1vali.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u010clov\u011bk, kter\u00fd ji znal pouze z obdob\u00ed, kdy v\u00e1\u017eila t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 260 kilogram\u016f, by jen t\u011b\u017eko uv\u011b\u0159il, jak daleko se dok\u00e1zala posunout.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ale mo\u017en\u00e1 je\u0161t\u011b d\u016fle\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00ed ne\u017e samotn\u00fd vzhled bylo n\u011bco jin\u00e9ho.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Annika u\u017e nebyla tou \u017eenou, kter\u00e1 \u010dekala na potvrzen\u00ed vlastn\u00ed hodnoty od sv\u00e9ho man\u017eela.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ani tou \u017eenou, kter\u00e1 se m\u011b\u0159ila pohledem jeho nov\u00e9 partnerky.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Za\u010dala se d\u00edvat sama na sebe jin\u00fdma o\u010dima.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Je snadn\u00e9 soust\u0159edit cel\u00fd podobn\u00fd p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh pouze na hubnut\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Fotografie p\u0159ed prom\u011bnou.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Fotografie po prom\u011bn\u011b.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u010c\u00edsla.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Rozd\u00edl ve vzhledu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
To v\u0161echno p\u0159itahuje pozornost.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Jen\u017ee skute\u010dn\u00fd p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh b\u00fdv\u00e1 mnohem hlub\u0161\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u010clov\u011bk se toti\u017e m\u016f\u017ee zm\u011bnit navenek a p\u0159esto si uvnit\u0159 st\u00e1le n\u00e9st stejnou bolest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pokud Annice jej\u00ed cesta n\u011bco p\u0159inesla, nebylo to pouze jin\u00e9 t\u011blo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
P\u0159inesla j\u00ed tak\u00e9 zku\u0161enost, \u017ee zm\u011bna nemus\u00ed za\u010d\u00edt ve chv\u00edli, kdy se \u010dlov\u011bk miluje.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
N\u011bkdy za\u010dne pr\u00e1v\u011b tehdy, kdy\u017e u\u017e se na sebe nedok\u00e1\u017ee ani pod\u00edvat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Rozhoduj\u00edc\u00ed je potom pochopit, \u017ee zm\u011bna nemus\u00ed b\u00fdt trestem za minulost.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nemus\u00ed b\u00fdt pomstou b\u00fdval\u00e9mu partnerovi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nemus\u00ed b\u00fdt zp\u016fsobem, jak n\u011bkomu n\u011bco dokazovat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
M\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt prost\u011b n\u00e1vratem k vlastn\u00edmu \u017eivotu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nejzaj\u00edmav\u011bj\u0161\u00ed na Anni\u010din\u011b p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhu proto nen\u00ed ani samotn\u00e1 v\u00e1ha, ani jej\u00ed b\u00fdval\u00fd man\u017eel.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Je to okam\u017eik, kdy se rozhodla, \u017ee pohled jin\u00e9 \u017eeny u\u017e nebude ur\u010dovat, jakou hodnotu sama sob\u011b p\u0159isoud\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Mo\u017en\u00e1 pr\u00e1v\u011b tam za\u010dala jej\u00ed skute\u010dn\u00e1 prom\u011bna.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Man\u017eel ode\u0161el.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Jin\u00e1 \u017eena zaujala jeho m\u00edsto.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Annika z\u016fstala sama se svou bolest\u00ed a se sv\u00fdm \u017eivotem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
A pr\u00e1v\u011b tehdy st\u00e1la p\u0159ed rozhodnut\u00edm, kter\u00e9 za ni nemohl ud\u011blat nikdo jin\u00fd.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bu\u010f uv\u011b\u0159\u00ed, \u017ee jej\u00ed p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh skon\u010dil t\u00edm, \u017ee ji n\u011bkdo opustil\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n
nebo pochop\u00ed, \u017ee odchod jednoho \u010dlov\u011bka nemus\u00ed znamenat konec jej\u00edho vlastn\u00edho \u017eivota.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
O n\u011bkolik let pozd\u011bji u\u017e bylo na prvn\u00ed pohled jasn\u00e9, kterou mo\u017enost si vybrala.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Jej\u00ed prom\u011bna \u0161okovala okol\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ale nejv\u011bt\u0161\u00ed zm\u011bna se odehr\u00e1la tam, kam nikdo jin\u00fd nevid\u011bl.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
V okam\u017eiku, kdy se Annika p\u0159estala pt\u00e1t, jestli je pro n\u011bkoho dost dobr\u00e1, a za\u010dala si kl\u00e1st \u00fapln\u011b jinou ot\u00e1zku:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Jak\u00fd \u017eivot chci od t\u00e9to chv\u00edle \u017e\u00edt j\u00e1 sama?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"V n\u011bkter\u00fdch okam\u017eic\u00edch \u010dlov\u011bka nezm\u011bn\u00ed dlouh\u00fd rozhovor ani rada n\u011bkoho bl\u00edzk\u00e9ho. Sta\u010d\u00ed jedin\u00fd pohled. Pr\u00e1v\u011b takov\u00fd okam\u017eik podle p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhu pro\u017eila Annika. V dob\u011b, \n [...]<\/a>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":5691,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5690","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-news"],"views":68,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5690","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=5690"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5690\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5692,"href":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5690\/revisions\/5692"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/5691"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=5690"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=5690"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=5690"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}