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<\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\nP\u0159ed odchodem v\u0161ak Sofie Elenu chytila za ruku.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201eMohla byste adoptovat moji sest\u0159i\u010dku?\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Elena nejprve nerozum\u011bla. \u010cekala sp\u00ed\u0161 ot\u00e1zku, zda se n\u011bkdy vr\u00e1t\u00ed, nebo jestli j\u00ed p\u0159inese n\u011bjakou hra\u010dku.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201eA co ty?\u201c zeptala se.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sofie sklopila o\u010di. Odpov\u011b\u010f p\u0159i\u0161la klidn\u011b, t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 bez emoc\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201eM\u011b si nikdo nevybere. M\u00e1m Down\u016fv syndrom.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n
V t\u00e9 chv\u00edli Elena pochopila n\u011bco, co j\u00ed p\u0159i prvn\u00ed n\u00e1v\u0161t\u011bv\u011b unikalo. Sofie u\u017e si vytvo\u0159ila vlastn\u00ed vysv\u011btlen\u00ed toho, pro\u010d by ji rodina mohla odm\u00edtnout. A p\u0159esto\u017ee sama tou\u017eila po domov\u011b, byla p\u0159ipravena p\u0159\u00e1t \u0161t\u011bst\u00ed p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm sv\u00e9 mal\u00e9 sest\u0159e.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pouto siln\u011bj\u0161\u00ed ne\u017e okolnosti<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
Elena se rozhodla d\u011bv\u010data nav\u0161t\u011bvovat pravideln\u011b. Postupn\u011b pozn\u00e1vala i Emu, kter\u00e1 byla \u00fapln\u011b jin\u00e1 ne\u017e jej\u00ed star\u0161\u00ed sestra. Byla neposedn\u00e1, zv\u011bdav\u00e1 a dok\u00e1zala prom\u011bnit oby\u010dejn\u00e9 odpoledne v mal\u00e9 dobrodru\u017estv\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u010c\u00edm v\u00edce \u010dasu s nimi Elena tr\u00e1vila, t\u00edm z\u0159eteln\u011bj\u0161\u00ed bylo, \u017ee sestry tvo\u0159\u00ed nerozlu\u010dnou dvojici. Sofie Emu chr\u00e1nila, pom\u00e1hala j\u00ed a uklid\u0148ovala ji, kdy\u017e se n\u011b\u010deho b\u00e1la. Ema zase dok\u00e1zala Sofii rozesm\u00e1t jedin\u00fdm pohledem nebo ne\u010dekan\u00fdm n\u00e1padem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nebyla to dokonal\u00e1 rodina. Byla to ale rodina v tom nejd\u016fle\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00edm smyslu: dv\u011b d\u011bti v\u011bd\u011bly, \u017ee se mohou spolehnout jedna na druhou.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pak Elena jednoho dne zaslechla rozhovor, kter\u00fd zm\u011bnil jej\u00ed pohled na celou situaci.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Do za\u0159\u00edzen\u00ed p\u0159i\u0161el p\u00e1r, kter\u00fd zva\u017eoval adopci. Zaj\u00edmala ho p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm mlad\u0161\u00ed Ema. Kdy\u017e v\u0161ak p\u0159i\u0161la \u0159e\u010d na Sofii, zazn\u011bly obavy spojen\u00e9 s jej\u00edm posti\u017een\u00edm.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pro Sofii to nebyla jen odm\u00edtnut\u00e1 mo\u017enost. Bylo to potvrzen\u00ed jej\u00edho strachu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
A p\u0159esto se podle p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhu nesna\u017eila dosp\u011bl\u00e9 p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010dit, aby si vybrali ji. Naopak byla ochotn\u00e1 p\u0159ijmout p\u0159edstavu, \u017ee jej\u00ed sestra odejde do nov\u00e9 rodiny, zat\u00edmco ona z\u016fstane.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Elena si v tu chv\u00edli uv\u011bdomila, \u017ee probl\u00e9m nen\u00ed v tom, \u017ee by Sofie pot\u0159ebovala m\u00e9n\u011b l\u00e1sky. Pot\u0159ebovala j\u00ed mo\u017en\u00e1 v\u00edc. P\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm v\u0161ak pot\u0159ebovala n\u011bkoho, kdo ji nebude vn\u00edmat jen skrze diagn\u00f3zu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Rozhodnut\u00ed, kter\u00e9 u\u017e ne\u0161lo odvolat<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
Po t\u00e9to zku\u0161enosti za\u010dala Elena uva\u017eovat o adopci v\u00e1\u017en\u011b. Necht\u011bla jednat z l\u00edtosti ani z okam\u017eit\u00e9ho dojet\u00ed. V\u011bd\u011bla, \u017ee adopce znamen\u00e1 dlouhodob\u00fd z\u00e1vazek, ka\u017edodenn\u00ed p\u00e9\u010di a schopnost p\u0159ijmout d\u00edt\u011b takov\u00e9, jak\u00e9 je.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Proto postupn\u011b zah\u00e1jila pot\u0159ebn\u00e9 kroky.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Mezit\u00edm se jej\u00ed vztah k ob\u011bma d\u00edvk\u00e1m prohluboval. Ne\u0161lo u\u017e jen o n\u00e1v\u0161t\u011bvy v d\u011btsk\u00e9m domov\u011b. Elena si za\u010d\u00ednala p\u0159edstavovat, jak by vypadal spole\u010dn\u00fd \u017eivot, jak by se sestry zabydlely, co by pot\u0159ebovaly a jak by se zm\u011bnil jejich dosavadn\u00ed sv\u011bt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u010c\u00edm d\u00e9le o tom p\u0159em\u00fd\u0161lela, t\u00edm m\u00e9n\u011b d\u00e1valo smysl odd\u011blovat dv\u011b d\u011bti, jejich\u017e \u017eivoty byly tak \u00fazce propojen\u00e9.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nakonec p\u0159i\u0161el telefon\u00e1t od \u0159editelky za\u0159\u00edzen\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Form\u00e1ln\u00ed \u010d\u00e1st procesu byla dokon\u010dena a Elena dostala ot\u00e1zku, kter\u00e1 m\u011bla potvrdit jej\u00ed rozhodnut\u00ed:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201eJste p\u0159ipraven\u00e1 p\u0159ijmout Emu?\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n
V b\u011b\u017en\u00e9 situaci by \u0161lo o jednoduchou ot\u00e1zku. Elena v\u0161ak v\u011bd\u011bla, \u017ee za n\u00ed stoj\u00ed mnohem v\u011bt\u0161\u00ed probl\u00e9m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pokud odpov\u00ed pouze ve prosp\u011bch mlad\u0161\u00ed d\u00edvky, m\u016f\u017ee se st\u00e1t p\u0159esn\u011b to, \u010deho se Sofie od za\u010d\u00e1tku b\u00e1la. Ema z\u00edsk\u00e1 rodinu a Sofie z\u016fstane sama.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Elena se proto nadechla a \u0159ekla v\u011btu, kter\u00e1 podle vypr\u00e1v\u011bn\u00ed zm\u011bnila sm\u011br cel\u00e9ho p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhu:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201eAno. Ale nechci si vz\u00edt jen Emu. Pokud m\u00e1m b\u00fdt jejich rodinou, chci ob\u011b.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n
V m\u00edstnosti nastalo ticho.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ne\u0161lo o z\u00e1chranu, ale o p\u0159ijet\u00ed<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
Tento okam\u017eik je nejsiln\u011bj\u0161\u00ed \u010d\u00e1st\u00ed cel\u00e9ho p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhu pr\u00e1v\u011b proto, \u017ee Elena nep\u0159ijala Sofii jako \u201edopln\u011bk\u201c k adopci mlad\u0161\u00edho d\u00edt\u011bte. Rozhodnut\u00ed postavila na jednoduch\u00e9 my\u0161lence: sestry nemaj\u00ed b\u00fdt nuceny volit mezi bezpe\u010d\u00edm jedn\u00e9 z nich a samotou druh\u00e9.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Down\u016fv syndrom p\u0159itom nen\u00ed p\u0159ek\u00e1\u017eka, kter\u00e1 by sama o sob\u011b ur\u010dovala hodnotu \u010dlov\u011bka nebo jeho schopnost pro\u017e\u00edvat vztahy, radost a vlastn\u00ed \u017eivot. Lid\u00e9 s Downov\u00fdm syndromem maj\u00ed velmi rozd\u00edln\u00e9 pot\u0159eby a schopnosti a m\u00edra pot\u0159ebn\u00e9 podpory se u jednotlivc\u016f li\u0161\u00ed. Pr\u00e1v\u011b proto je d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 nep\u0159edpokl\u00e1dat p\u0159edem, jak\u00fd \u017eivot d\u00edt\u011b m\u016f\u017ee nebo nem\u016f\u017ee v\u00e9st.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sofie nav\u00edc v p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhu neukazuje nedostatek odvahy. Naopak. Jej\u00ed nejv\u011bt\u0161\u00ed p\u0159\u00e1n\u00ed nen\u00ed zam\u011b\u0159en\u00e9 na ni samotnou. P\u0159em\u00fd\u0161l\u00ed o budoucnosti sv\u00e9 sestry, i kdy\u017e se sama boj\u00ed, \u017ee do n\u00ed nebude pat\u0159it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Elena v\u0161ak odm\u00edtne p\u0159ijmout my\u0161lenku, \u017ee l\u00e1ska mus\u00ed b\u00fdt rozd\u011blena podle toho, kter\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b je pro dosp\u011bl\u00e9 jednodu\u0161\u0161\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Co tento p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh skute\u010dn\u011b p\u0159ipom\u00edn\u00e1<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
P\u0159\u00edb\u011bh Sofie a Emy m\u016f\u017ee p\u016fsobit jako emotivn\u00ed vypr\u00e1v\u011bn\u00ed o adopci, ve skute\u010dnosti ale otev\u00edr\u00e1 mnohem \u0161ir\u0161\u00ed ot\u00e1zku: co se stane s d\u00edt\u011btem, kter\u00e9 si lid\u00e9 za\u010dnou spojovat p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm s jeho diagn\u00f3zou?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
P\u0159i rozhodov\u00e1n\u00ed o adopci by nem\u011blo b\u00fdt d\u00edt\u011b hodnoceno pouze podle toho, co m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00e9. Stejn\u011b d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 je vid\u011bt jeho osobnost, vztahy, pot\u0159eby, z\u00e1jmy a mo\u017enosti rozvoje.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
U sourozenc\u016f nav\u00edc existuje dal\u0161\u00ed rozm\u011br. Jejich odd\u011blen\u00ed m\u016f\u017ee znamenat ztr\u00e1tu jednoho z nejd\u016fle\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00edch stabiln\u00edch vztah\u016f, kter\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b v institucion\u00e1ln\u00ed p\u00e9\u010di m\u00e1. To samoz\u0159ejm\u011b neznamen\u00e1, \u017ee spole\u010dn\u00e1 adopce je za v\u0161ech okolnost\u00ed mo\u017en\u00e1 nebo nejlep\u0161\u00ed. Ka\u017ed\u00fd p\u0159\u00edpad m\u00e1 sv\u00e9 okolnosti a skute\u010dn\u00e1 rozhodnut\u00ed mus\u00ed vych\u00e1zet p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm z pot\u0159eb konkr\u00e9tn\u00edch d\u011bt\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
V tomto vypr\u00e1v\u011bn\u00ed v\u0161ak pr\u00e1v\u011b spole\u010dn\u00e9 p\u0159ijet\u00ed obou sester p\u0159edstavuje z\u00e1sadn\u00ed zlom.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sofie u\u017e nemusela p\u0159em\u00fd\u0161let, zda si n\u011bkdo vybere Emu na jej\u00ed \u00fakor. Ema u\u017e nemusela opou\u0161t\u011bt jedin\u00e9ho \u010dlov\u011bka, kter\u00fd pro ni byl od za\u010d\u00e1tku oporou.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
A Elena?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ta p\u016fvodn\u011b p\u0159i\u0161la do d\u011btsk\u00e9ho domova hledat zp\u016fsob, jak se vyrovnat s vlastn\u00ed samotou. Nakonec zjistila, \u017ee rodina n\u011bkdy nevznikne podle p\u0159edem p\u0159ipraven\u00e9ho pl\u00e1nu. M\u016f\u017ee za\u010d\u00edt jedinou d\u011btskou ot\u00e1zkou a rozhodnut\u00edm dosp\u011bl\u00e9ho neposuzovat \u010dlov\u011bka podle toho, jak snadn\u00e1 nebo obt\u00ed\u017en\u00e1 se jeho cesta zd\u00e1.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nejsiln\u011bj\u0161\u00ed \u010d\u00e1st p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhu proto nen\u00ed samotn\u00fd okam\u017eik adopce. Je to chv\u00edle, kdy Sofie poprv\u00e9 uv\u011b\u0159\u00ed, \u017ee nemus\u00ed b\u00fdt cenou za \u0161t\u011bst\u00ed sv\u00e9 sestry.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Tentokr\u00e1t toti\u017e n\u011bkdo ne\u0159ekl: \u201eVezmu si tu mlad\u0161\u00ed.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n
N\u011bkdo \u0159ekl: \u201eChci v\u00e1s ob\u011b.\u201c<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Netu\u0161ila, \u017ee b\u011bhem jedin\u00e9 n\u00e1v\u0161t\u011bvy potk\u00e1 desetiletou Sofii. D\u00edvka sed\u011bla stranou od ostatn\u00edch d\u011bt\u00ed a v n\u00e1ru\u010d\u00ed dr\u017eela star\u00e9ho ply\u0161ov\u00e9ho medv\u011bda. Kdy\u017e si \n [...]<\/a>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":5545,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5544","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-news"],"views":44,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5544","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=5544"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5544\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5546,"href":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5544\/revisions\/5546"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/5545"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=5544"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=5544"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=5544"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}