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<\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\nMoje matka ode\u0161la ve chv\u00edli, kdy jsem se narodil. Nezn\u00e1m jej\u00ed hlas, nezn\u00e1m jej\u00ed dotek, nezn\u00e1m ani jej\u00ed tv\u00e1\u0159 jinak ne\u017e z vybledl\u00fdch fotografi\u00ed v dokumentech, kter\u00e9 jsem jednou vid\u011bl. Pro m\u011b nikdy nebyla osobou, jen p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhem, kter\u00fd za\u010dal a okam\u017eit\u011b skon\u010dil.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
M\u016fj otec existoval jin\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem. Nebyl nep\u0159\u00edtomn\u00fd v prav\u00e9m slova smyslu \u2014 jen byl uzam\u010den za zdmi, kter\u00e9 se zd\u00e1ly b\u00fdt pevn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed ne\u017e jak\u00fdkoli vztah. V\u011bzen\u00ed pro n\u011bj nebylo epizodou. Bylo to prost\u0159ed\u00ed, kter\u00e9 formovalo i nep\u0159\u00edtomnost jeho role v m\u00e9m \u017eivot\u011b. Ob\u010das jsem dost\u00e1val dopisy, ale byly kr\u00e1tk\u00e9, form\u00e1ln\u00ed, jako by i slova m\u011bla za m\u0159\u00ed\u017eemi omezen\u00fd prostor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
A tak jsem vyr\u016fstal mezi institucemi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
P\u011bstounsk\u00e9 rodiny, kter\u00e9 se st\u0159\u00eddaly rychleji, ne\u017e jsem si stihl zvyknout na v\u016fni jejich domov\u016f. \u00datulky, kde se noc\u00ed oz\u00fdvaly stejn\u00e9 kroky a stejn\u00e9 sny o tom, \u017ee jednou v\u0161echno bude jinak. A st\u00e1tn\u00ed programy, kde se o n\u00e1s mluvilo v tabulk\u00e1ch, v z\u00e1znamech, v kategori\u00edch, kter\u00e9 neobsahovaly nic z toho, k\u00fdm jsme doopravdy byli.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201eD\u00edt\u011b bez stabiln\u00edho z\u00e1zem\u00ed.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201eRizikov\u00fd p\u0159\u00edpad.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201eDo\u010dasn\u00e9 um\u00edst\u011bn\u00ed.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Byl jsem v\u0161echno mo\u017en\u00e9, jen ne n\u011bkdo, kdo by n\u011bkam pat\u0159il.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Lid\u00e9, kte\u0159\u00ed se o n\u00e1s starali, to v\u011bt\u0161inou nemysleli \u0161patn\u011b. Ale jejich \u00fanava byla v\u017edy p\u0159\u00edtomn\u00e1. M\u011bnili jsme domovy, jm\u00e9na soci\u00e1ln\u00edch pracovn\u00edk\u016f, pravidla i rutiny. Ka\u017ed\u00e1 zm\u011bna znamenala za\u010d\u00edt znovu \u2014 vysv\u011btlovat, p\u0159izp\u016fsobovat se, ztr\u00e1cet i to m\u00e1lo jistoty, kter\u00e9 se poda\u0159ilo vybudovat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nau\u010dil jsem se pozorovat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
To bylo nejbezpe\u010dn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pozorovat znamenalo m\u00e9n\u011b mluvit. M\u00e9n\u011b riskovat. M\u00e9n\u011b doufat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Proto\u017ee nad\u011bje byla n\u011bco, co se v t\u011bch prost\u0159ed\u00edch nevypl\u00e1celo m\u00edt p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 dlouho. V\u017edycky p\u0159i\u0161la n\u011bjak\u00e1 zm\u011bna, kter\u00e1 ji rozbila.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pamatuji si jednu konkr\u00e9tn\u00ed noc v jednom z domov\u016f. Bylo mi asi dev\u011bt. Sed\u011bl jsem na posteli a poslouchal, jak n\u011bkdo na chodb\u011b pl\u00e1\u010de. Nikdo nep\u0159i\u0161el. Nikdo to ne\u0159e\u0161il. R\u00e1no se tv\u00e1\u0159ilo, \u017ee se nic nestalo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
A j\u00e1 jsem tehdy pochopil n\u011bco, co m\u011b prov\u00e1zelo dlouho:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u017ee bolest, kterou nikdo nevid\u00ed, p\u0159est\u00e1v\u00e1 b\u00fdt d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e1.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u0160kola byla zvl\u00e1\u0161tn\u00ed sv\u011bt. Tam jsem byl \u201eten kluk z domova\u201c. Ne v\u017edy vysloven\u011b, ale v pohledech, v ot\u00e1zk\u00e1ch, v tom, jak si lid\u00e9 d\u00e1vali pozor, co mi \u0159\u00edkaj\u00ed. Jako bych byl n\u011bco k\u0159ehk\u00e9ho, co se m\u016f\u017ee kdykoli rozpadnout \u2014 nebo naopak n\u011bco, co u\u017e je rozbit\u00e9 a nelze to \u00fapln\u011b opravit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nezlobilo m\u011b to.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sp\u00ed\u0161 jsem si zvykl.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Zvyk je v takov\u00e9m \u017eivot\u011b zvl\u00e1\u0161tn\u00ed forma p\u0159e\u017eit\u00ed. U\u010d\u00ed v\u00e1s p\u0159ij\u00edmat v\u011bci, kter\u00e9 by jin\u00ed pova\u017eovali za nep\u0159ijateln\u00e9. U\u010d\u00ed v\u00e1s ne\u010dekat p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 mnoho. A hlavn\u011b \u2014 ne\u010dekat, \u017ee n\u011bkde z\u016fstanete dost dlouho na to, aby na v\u00e1s opravdu z\u00e1le\u017eelo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ale i v tomhle sv\u011bt\u011b se ob\u010das objevily mal\u00e9 okam\u017eiky, kter\u00e9 naru\u0161ily pravidla.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Jedna p\u011bstounsk\u00e1 rodina, kter\u00e1 si m\u011b nechala o n\u011bco d\u00e9le ne\u017e ostatn\u00ed. Jedna u\u010ditelka, kter\u00e1 si v\u0161imla, \u017ee sed\u00edm v\u017edy s\u00e1m, a neptala se \u201epro\u010d\u201c, ale jen si ke mn\u011b jednou p\u0159isedla. Jedna noc, kdy jsem poprv\u00e9 c\u00edtil, \u017ee ticho nemus\u00ed b\u00fdt nutn\u011b hrozbou.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Tyto momenty ale nikdy netrvaly dost dlouho, aby zm\u011bnily cel\u00fd p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Jen ho na chv\u00edli zpomalily.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Dnes, kdy\u017e se ohl\u00ed\u017e\u00edm zp\u011bt, nevn\u00edm\u00e1m sv\u016fj \u017eivot jako jeden velk\u00fd tragick\u00fd p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh. Sp\u00ed\u0161 jako s\u00e9rii m\u00edst, kter\u00e1 m\u011b u\u010dila, jak p\u0159e\u017e\u00edt bez ko\u0159en\u016f. Jak se pohybovat sv\u011btem, ani\u017e bych m\u011bl pevn\u00fd bod, ke kter\u00e9mu bych se mohl vr\u00e1tit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
A p\u0159esto, i kdy\u017e jsem nikdy nev\u011bd\u011bl, co znamen\u00e1 \u201epat\u0159it n\u011bkam\u201c, nau\u010dil jsem se n\u011bco jin\u00e9ho.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u017de n\u011bkdy si \u010dlov\u011bk sv\u00e9 m\u00edsto nevydobude minulost\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ale t\u00edm, co si vybuduje s\u00e1m \u2014 i kdy\u017e za\u010d\u00edn\u00e1 z \u00fapln\u00e9ho pr\u00e1zdna.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Nikdy jsem nev\u011bd\u011bl, jak\u00e9 to je n\u011bkam pat\u0159it. To nen\u00ed v\u011bta, kterou bych \u0159\u00edkal s l\u00edtost\u00ed. Sp\u00ed\u0161 je to konstatov\u00e1n\u00ed, kter\u00e9 se stalo \n [...]<\/a>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":5285,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5284","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-news"],"views":6,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5284","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=5284"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5284\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5286,"href":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5284\/revisions\/5286"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/5285"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=5284"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=5284"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=5284"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}