{"id":4515,"date":"2026-03-15T20:04:15","date_gmt":"2026-03-15T20:04:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/?p=4515"},"modified":"2026-03-15T20:04:15","modified_gmt":"2026-03-15T20:04:15","slug":"toto-je-muj-syn-jon-se-svou-partnerkou-na-ples-maddie-jon-je-student-tretiho-rocniku-a-ma-autismus","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/?p=4515","title":{"rendered":"Toto je m\u016fj syn Jon se svou partnerkou na ples Maddie. Jon je student t\u0159et\u00edho ro\u010dn\u00edku a m\u00e1 autismus."},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Toto je m\u016fj syn Jon se svou partnerkou na ples Maddie. Jon je student t\u0159et\u00edho ro\u010dn\u00edku a m\u00e1 autismus. Kdy\u017e jsem tu fotografii poprv\u00e9 vid\u011bla, musela jsem se na chv\u00edli zastavit. Ne proto, \u017ee by to byla jen oby\u010dejn\u00e1 fotografie dvou mlad\u00fdch lid\u00ed na \u0161koln\u00edm plese. Pro m\u011b to byl obraz cesty, kter\u00e1 za\u010dala p\u0159ed mnoha lety a byla pln\u00e1 obav, mal\u00fdch v\u00edt\u011bzstv\u00ed a moment\u016f, kdy jsem si uv\u011bdomila, jak siln\u00fd m\u016fj syn ve skute\u010dnosti je.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Jon byl u\u017e jako mal\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b trochu jin\u00fd ne\u017e ostatn\u00ed d\u011bti. Kdy\u017e mu byly dva roky, v\u011bt\u0161inou si hr\u00e1l s\u00e1m a dlouho dok\u00e1zal sledovat jednu hra\u010dku nebo p\u0159edm\u011bt. Miloval opakov\u00e1n\u00ed \u2014 stejn\u00e9 poh\u00e1dky, stejn\u00e9 p\u00edsni\u010dky, stejn\u00e9 trasy p\u0159i proch\u00e1zk\u00e1ch.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tehdy jsem je\u0161t\u011b p\u0159esn\u011b nev\u011bd\u011bla pro\u010d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kdy\u017e mu byly \u010dty\u0159i roky, l\u00e9ka\u0159i n\u00e1m \u0159ekli slovo, kter\u00e9 zm\u011bnilo na\u0161e ch\u00e1p\u00e1n\u00ed sv\u011bta: autismus.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pamatuji si, jak jsem sed\u011bla v ordinaci a sna\u017eila se pochopit, co to pro jeho budoucnost znamen\u00e1. M\u011bla jsem spoustu ot\u00e1zek a mnohem v\u00edc strachu. Nejv\u00edc m\u011b ale tr\u00e1pila jedna my\u0161lenka: bude Jon n\u011bkdy \u0161\u0165astn\u00fd?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Roky, kter\u00e9 n\u00e1sledovaly, byly pln\u00e9 u\u010den\u00ed. Nejen pro n\u011bj, ale i pro n\u00e1s jako rodinu. Jon pot\u0159eboval v\u00edce \u010dasu na v\u011bci, kter\u00e9 jin\u00fdm d\u011btem p\u0159ich\u00e1zely p\u0159irozen\u011b. U\u010dit se komunikovat, navazovat kontakt s lidmi nebo zvl\u00e1dat zm\u011bny v ka\u017edodenn\u00edm re\u017eimu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ka\u017ed\u00fd mal\u00fd pokrok pro n\u00e1s znamenal obrovskou radost.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pamatuji si den, kdy poprv\u00e9 s\u00e1m oslovil spolu\u017e\u00e1ka. Nebo kdy\u017e se poprv\u00e9 zapojil do skupinov\u00e9 hry ve \u0161kole. Pro n\u011bkoho to mohou b\u00fdt drobnosti, ale pro n\u00e1s to byly okam\u017eiky, kter\u00e9 jsme si pamatovali cel\u00e9 t\u00fddny.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kdy\u017e Jon nastoupil na st\u0159edn\u00ed \u0161kolu, m\u011bla jsem znovu obavy. St\u0159edn\u00ed \u0161kola m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00e1 i pro d\u011bti bez jak\u00fdchkoliv obt\u00ed\u017e\u00ed. B\u00e1la jsem se, jak ho p\u0159ijmou ostatn\u00ed studenti, jestli si najde p\u0159\u00e1tele a jestli se nebude c\u00edtit osam\u011bl\u00fd.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Prvn\u00ed rok nebyl jednoduch\u00fd. Jon se dr\u017eel sp\u00ed\u0161 stranou a v\u011bt\u0161inu p\u0159est\u00e1vek tr\u00e1vil v knihovn\u011b. Ale postupn\u011b se n\u011bco za\u010dalo m\u011bnit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Jednoho dne p\u0159i\u0161el dom\u016f a \u0159ekl mi: \u201eMluvila se mnou jedna holka ze t\u0159\u00eddy.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ta d\u00edvka se jmenovala Maddie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Za\u010dalo to \u00fapln\u011b nen\u00e1padn\u011b. Nejprve spole\u010dn\u00fd projekt do \u0161koly. Pak kr\u00e1tk\u00e9 rozhovory na chodb\u011b. Maddie m\u011bla trp\u011blivost a p\u0159irozenou laskavost, kter\u00e1 Jonovi pomohla c\u00edtit se bezpe\u010dn\u011bji.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Postupn\u011b spolu za\u010dali tr\u00e1vit v\u00edc \u010dasu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Jednoho ve\u010dera, asi m\u011bs\u00edc p\u0159ed \u0161koln\u00edm plesem, p\u0159i\u0161el Jon do kuchyn\u011b a chv\u00edli jen st\u00e1l u stolu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201eMami?\u201c \u0159ekl opatrn\u011b.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201eAno?\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201eMaddie se m\u011b zeptala, jestli bych \u0161el s n\u00ed na ples.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Na chv\u00edli jsem nev\u011bd\u011bla, co \u0159\u00edct.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201eA co jsi odpov\u011bd\u011bl?\u201c zeptala jsem se.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Jon se trochu usm\u00e1l.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201e\u0158ekl jsem ano.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ten ve\u010der jsem si uv\u011bdomila, jak dlouhou cestu jsme u\u0161li. Od mal\u00e9ho chlapce, kter\u00fd se b\u00e1l zm\u011bn a nov\u00fdch situac\u00ed, k mlad\u00e9mu mu\u017ei, kter\u00fd dok\u00e1zal ud\u011blat krok do sv\u011bta pln\u00e9ho lid\u00ed, hudby a emoc\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A pak p\u0159i\u0161el den plesu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Jon m\u011bl na sob\u011b tmav\u00fd oblek a byl trochu nerv\u00f3zn\u00ed. Maddie m\u011bla jednoduch\u00e9, ale kr\u00e1sn\u00e9 \u0161aty a kdy\u017e p\u0159i\u0161la k na\u0161emu domu, usm\u00e1la se na n\u011bj tak p\u0159irozen\u011b, \u017ee v\u011bt\u0161ina jeho obav zmizela.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ud\u011blala jsem tu fotografii pr\u00e1v\u011b v tu chv\u00edli.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dva teenage\u0159i stoj\u00edc\u00ed vedle sebe p\u0159ed domem, p\u0159ipraven\u00ed vyrazit na ve\u010der, kter\u00fd pro n\u011b byl d\u016fle\u017eit\u00fd.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pro n\u011bkoho jin\u00e9ho by to mohl b\u00fdt jen dal\u0161\u00ed \u0161koln\u00ed ples.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pro m\u011b to byl d\u016fkaz, \u017ee i kdy\u017e je cesta n\u011bkdy jin\u00e1 a mo\u017en\u00e1 del\u0161\u00ed, radost, p\u0159\u00e1telstv\u00ed a oby\u010dejn\u00e9 kr\u00e1sn\u00e9 okam\u017eiky mohou p\u0159ij\u00edt ke ka\u017ed\u00e9mu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A kdy\u017e jsem se na tu fotografii pod\u00edvala znovu, vid\u011bla jsem v n\u00ed n\u011bco v\u00edc ne\u017e jen ples.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Vid\u011bla jsem odvahu, trp\u011blivost a nad\u011bji.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Toto je m\u016fj syn Jon se svou partnerkou na ples Maddie. Jon je student t\u0159et\u00edho ro\u010dn\u00edku a m\u00e1 autismus. Kdy\u017e jsem tu fotografii \n [...]<\/a>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":4516,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4515","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-news"],"views":106,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4515","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=4515"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4515\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4517,"href":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4515\/revisions\/4517"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/4516"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=4515"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=4515"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=4515"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}