{"id":4196,"date":"2026-02-28T08:53:30","date_gmt":"2026-02-28T08:53:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/?p=4196"},"modified":"2026-02-28T08:53:30","modified_gmt":"2026-02-28T08:53:30","slug":"ve-ctyrech-letech-mu-ohen-zmenil-cely-zivot-pribeh-chlapce-ktery-se-nevzdal-navzdory-bolesti-a-pohledum-okoli","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/?p=4196","title":{"rendered":"Ve \u010dty\u0159ech letech mu ohe\u0148 zm\u011bnil cel\u00fd \u017eivot: p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh chlapce, kter\u00fd se nevzdal navzdory bolesti a pohled\u016fm okol\u00ed"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Kdy\u017e bylo Maty\u00e1\u0161ovi pouh\u00e9 \u010dty\u0159i roky, sv\u011bt pro n\u011bj znamenal hlavn\u011b hra\u010dky rozeset\u00e9 po koberci, sm\u00edch na d\u011btsk\u00e9m h\u0159i\u0161ti a bezpe\u010d\u00ed v n\u00e1ru\u010d\u00ed rodi\u010d\u016f. Jedno odpoledne v\u0161ak v\u0161echno zm\u011bnil okam\u017eik, kter\u00fd trval sotva p\u00e1r minut. Po\u017e\u00e1r v rodinn\u00e9m dom\u011b, zp\u016fsoben\u00fd technickou z\u00e1vadou, obr\u00e1til jejich \u017eivot vzh\u016fru nohama. Ohe\u0148 byl rychl\u00fd, nemilosrdn\u00fd a zanechal na mal\u00e9m chlapci hlubok\u00e9 stopy \u2013 nejen na t\u011ble, ale i na du\u0161i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Maty\u00e1\u0161 utrp\u011bl rozs\u00e1hl\u00e9 pop\u00e1leniny na tv\u00e1\u0159i, krku a rukou. N\u00e1sledovaly t\u00fddny v nemocnici, bolestiv\u00e9 z\u00e1kroky, transplantace k\u016f\u017ee a dlouh\u00e9 hodiny rehabilitac\u00ed. L\u00e9ka\u0159i z Fakultn\u00ed nemocnice Kr\u00e1lovsk\u00e9 Vinohrady bojovali o to, aby mu zachr\u00e1nili nejen zdrav\u00ed, ale i budouc\u00ed kvalitu \u017eivota. Jeho rodi\u010de sed\u011bli u postele dnem i noc\u00ed, dr\u017eeli ho za ruku a sna\u017eili se mu dodat odvahu, i kdy\u017e sami c\u00edtili bezmoc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Fyzick\u00e1 bolest byla obrovsk\u00e1, ale je\u0161t\u011b t\u011b\u017e\u0161\u00ed bylo vyrovnat se s novou podobou v zrcadle. Jak roky plynuly, jizvy se staly sou\u010d\u00e1st\u00ed jeho identity. Kdy\u017e nastoupil do \u0161kolky a pozd\u011bji do \u0161koly, poprv\u00e9 si naplno uv\u011bdomil pohledy ostatn\u00edch. D\u011bti se ptaly bez z\u00e1bran, n\u011bkter\u00e9 se b\u00e1ly, jin\u00e9 se sm\u00e1ly. Maty\u00e1\u0161 brzy pochopil, \u017ee sv\u011bt dok\u00e1\u017ee b\u00fdt krut\u00fd \u2013 ne v\u017edy ze zloby, ale \u010dasto z neznalosti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nejt\u011b\u017e\u0161\u00ed obdob\u00ed p\u0159i\u0161lo kolem des\u00e1t\u00e9ho roku \u017eivota. Tehdy si za\u010dal v\u00edc uv\u011bdomovat rozd\u00edly mezi sebou a ostatn\u00edmi. Vyh\u00fdbal se spole\u010dn\u00fdm fotografi\u00edm, necht\u011bl chodit plavat, aby nemusel vysv\u011btlovat jizvy na t\u011ble. Jednou se dokonce zamkl v pokoji a odm\u00edtal j\u00edt do \u0161koly. \u201ePro\u010d zrovna j\u00e1?\u201c ptal se rodi\u010d\u016f se slzami v o\u010d\u00edch.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Zlom nastal ne\u010dekan\u011b. \u0160koln\u00ed psycholo\u017eka mu doporu\u010dila zapojit se do podp\u016frn\u00e9 skupiny pro d\u011bti po pop\u00e1lenin\u00e1ch. Tam poprv\u00e9 potkal dal\u0161\u00ed, kte\u0159\u00ed si pro\u0161li podobn\u00fdm peklem. Sd\u00edlen\u00e9 p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy mu uk\u00e1zaly, \u017ee nen\u00ed s\u00e1m. Postupn\u011b za\u010dal mluvit otev\u0159en\u011bji o sv\u00e9m \u00farazu, o bolesti i o strachu. Nau\u010dil se odpov\u00eddat na ot\u00e1zky spolu\u017e\u00e1k\u016f klidn\u011b a bez studu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ve dvan\u00e1cti letech objevil v\u00e1\u0161e\u0148 pro sport \u2013 konkr\u00e9tn\u011b atletiku. B\u011bh mu d\u00e1val pocit svobody, kter\u00fd dlouho postr\u00e1dal. Ka\u017ed\u00fd krok na dr\u00e1ze byl d\u016fkazem, \u017ee jeho t\u011blo, navzdory jizv\u00e1m, dok\u00e1\u017ee velk\u00e9 v\u011bci. Tren\u00e9r v m\u00edstn\u00edm klubu ho podporoval nejen fyzicky, ale i psychicky. Maty\u00e1\u0161 si postupn\u011b vybudoval sebev\u011bdom\u00ed, kter\u00e9 mu d\u0159\u00edve chyb\u011blo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dnes je mu sedmn\u00e1ct. Jizvy nezmizely, ale zm\u011bnil se jeho pohled na n\u011b. U\u017e je nevn\u00edm\u00e1 jako symbol slabosti, n\u00fdbr\u017e jako d\u016fkaz p\u0159e\u017eit\u00ed. O sv\u00e9m p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhu mluv\u00ed ve\u0159ejn\u011b \u2013 nav\u0161t\u011bvuje \u0161koly a sd\u00edl\u00ed zku\u0161enosti s d\u011btmi, kter\u00e9 \u010del\u00ed \u0161ikan\u011b nebo se c\u00edt\u00ed odli\u0161n\u00e9. U\u010d\u00ed je, \u017ee odvaha nen\u00ed nep\u0159\u00edtomnost strachu, ale schopnost j\u00edt d\u00e1l i p\u0159es n\u011bj.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Maty\u00e1\u0161\u016fv p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh nen\u00ed poh\u00e1dkou s jednoduch\u00fdm koncem. St\u00e1le proch\u00e1z\u00ed kontrolami, \u010dekaj\u00ed ho dal\u0161\u00ed men\u0161\u00ed z\u00e1kroky a n\u011bkdy i t\u011b\u017ek\u00e9 dny, kdy si znovu uv\u011bdom\u00ed pohledy okol\u00ed. Rozd\u00edl je v\u0161ak v tom, \u017ee dnes u\u017e v\u00ed, kdo je. Nenechal se definovat trag\u00e9di\u00ed, ale t\u00edm, jak na ni reagoval.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ohe\u0148 mu vzal bezstarostn\u00e9 d\u011btstv\u00ed, ale dal mu n\u011bco jin\u00e9ho \u2013 s\u00edlu, empatii a hlubok\u00e9 porozum\u011bn\u00ed lidsk\u00e9 zranitelnosti. A pr\u00e1v\u011b tato vnit\u0159n\u00ed s\u00edla z n\u011bj ud\u011blala mlad\u00e9ho mu\u017ee, kter\u00fd se nevzdal navzdory bolesti ani navzdory sv\u011btu, kter\u00fd se n\u011bkdy d\u00edv\u00e1 p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 povrchn\u011b.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Kdy\u017e bylo Maty\u00e1\u0161ovi pouh\u00e9 \u010dty\u0159i roky, sv\u011bt pro n\u011bj znamenal hlavn\u011b hra\u010dky rozeset\u00e9 po koberci, sm\u00edch na d\u011btsk\u00e9m h\u0159i\u0161ti a bezpe\u010d\u00ed v n\u00e1ru\u010d\u00ed \n [...]<\/a>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":4197,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4196","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-news"],"views":209,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4196","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=4196"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4196\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4198,"href":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4196\/revisions\/4198"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/4197"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=4196"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=4196"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=4196"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}