{"id":4051,"date":"2026-02-19T05:01:30","date_gmt":"2026-02-19T05:01:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/?p=4051"},"modified":"2026-02-19T05:01:30","modified_gmt":"2026-02-19T05:01:30","slug":"kdysi-byla-obycejnou-divkou-a-snila-o-tom-ze-bude-jako-panenka-pribeh-ktery-sokoval-tisice-lidi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/?p=4051","title":{"rendered":"Kdysi byla oby\u010dejnou d\u00edvkou a snila o tom, \u017ee bude jako panenka: p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh, kter\u00fd \u0161okoval tis\u00edce lid\u00ed"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Kdy\u017e se Laura narodila, nikdo by ne\u0159ekl, \u017ee se jednou stane t\u00e9matem v\u00e1\u0161niv\u00fdch debat na internetu i v televizi. Byla to tich\u00e1 hol\u010di\u010dka z mal\u00e9ho m\u011bsta, s velk\u00fdma o\u010dima a je\u0161t\u011b v\u011bt\u0161\u00ed fantazi\u00ed. Milovala \u0161aty s krajkou, r\u016f\u017eov\u00e9 stu\u017eky a p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm panenky. Nejen oby\u010dejn\u00e9 hra\u010dky, ale porcel\u00e1nov\u00e9 figurky s dokonal\u00fdmi rysy, hladkou plet\u00ed a nehybn\u00fdm \u00fasm\u011bvem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Zat\u00edmco jin\u00e9 d\u011bti si hr\u00e1ly na u\u010ditele nebo doktory, Laura si hr\u00e1la na v\u00fdlohu. St\u00e1la p\u0159ed zrcadlem, u\u010desan\u00e1, namalovan\u00e1 d\u011btsk\u00fdmi barvami, a sna\u017eila se neh\u00fdbat. Cht\u011bla b\u00fdt kr\u00e1sn\u00e1, dokonal\u00e1, bezchybn\u00e1. Cht\u011bla b\u00fdt jako panenka.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Jej\u00ed rodi\u010de to pova\u017eovali za nevinnou f\u00e1zi. \u201eVyroste z toho,\u201c \u0159\u00edkali. Jen\u017ee Laura z toho nevyrostla.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Na z\u00e1kladn\u00ed \u0161kole za\u010dala b\u00fdt nespokojen\u00e1 se sv\u00fdm vzhledem. Vadil j\u00ed tvar nosu, plnost tv\u00e1\u0159\u00ed, dokonce i to, \u017ee m\u00e1 na kolenou drobn\u00e9 jizvy z d\u011btsk\u00fdch her. Srovn\u00e1vala se s obr\u00e1zky z \u010dasopis\u016f, s upraven\u00fdmi fotografiemi na soci\u00e1ln\u00edch s\u00edt\u00edch. Ka\u017ed\u00fd nedokonal\u00fd detail vn\u00edmala jako selh\u00e1n\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ve \u010dtrn\u00e1cti letech si zalo\u017eila \u00fa\u010det na internetu, kde sd\u00edlela fotografie v pe\u010dliv\u011b stylizovan\u00fdch p\u00f3z\u00e1ch. Siln\u00fd make-up, barevn\u00e9 kontaktn\u00ed \u010do\u010dky, filtry vyhlazuj\u00edc\u00ed ple\u0165. Reakce byly okam\u017eit\u00e9. Koment\u00e1\u0159e typu \u201eVypad\u00e1\u0161 jako \u017eiv\u00e1 panenka!\u201c ji napl\u0148ovaly eufori\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Poprv\u00e9 m\u011bla pocit, \u017ee je dost dobr\u00e1.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Jen\u017ee virtu\u00e1ln\u00ed sv\u011bt m\u00e1 sv\u00e9 z\u00e1kony. To, co dnes ohrom\u00ed, z\u00edtra nesta\u010d\u00ed. Laura za\u010dala posouvat hranice. Zm\u011bnila \u00fa\u010des, za\u010dala nosit korzety, aby z\u00fa\u017eila pas. Hodiny tr\u00e1vila cvi\u010den\u00edm p\u0159ed zrcadlem, aby zdokonalila \u201epanenkovsk\u00e9\u201c pohyby.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V osmn\u00e1cti podstoupila prvn\u00ed kosmetick\u00fd z\u00e1krok. Rodi\u010de protestovali, ale byla plnolet\u00e1. Tvrdila, \u017ee je to jen drobn\u00e1 \u00faprava. Pak p\u0159i\u0161ly dal\u0161\u00ed. \u00daprava rt\u016f. Konturov\u00e1n\u00ed tv\u00e1\u0159\u00ed. Zv\u011bt\u0161en\u00ed o\u010d\u00ed pomoc\u00ed speci\u00e1ln\u00edch procedur. Ka\u017ed\u00fd krok ji m\u011bl p\u0159ibl\u00ed\u017eit vysn\u011bn\u00e9 dokonalosti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Fotografie za\u010daly ob\u00edhat internetem. N\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed ji obdivovali, jin\u00ed ji kritizovali. M\u00e9dia si v\u0161imla mlad\u00e9 \u017eeny, kter\u00e1 otev\u0159en\u011b prohla\u0161ovala, \u017ee chce b\u00fdt lidskou panenkou. Rozhovory, \u010dl\u00e1nky, televizn\u00ed vystoupen\u00ed. Jej\u00ed sleduj\u00edc\u00ed rostli.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ale za sv\u011btly reflektor\u016f se skr\u00fdvala jin\u00e1 realita.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Laura postupn\u011b ztratila kontakt s p\u0159\u00e1teli. V\u011bt\u0161inu \u010dasu v\u011bnovala sv\u00e9mu vzhledu a online prezentaci. Ka\u017ed\u00fd negativn\u00ed koment\u00e1\u0159 ji zas\u00e1hl jako r\u00e1na. Ka\u017ed\u00fd nov\u00fd \u201elajk\u201c byl kr\u00e1tkou d\u00e1vkou \u0161t\u011bst\u00ed, kter\u00e1 rychle vyprchala.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Jednoho ve\u010dera, kdy\u017e si pro\u010d\u00edtala diskusi pod sv\u00fdm videem, narazila na v\u011btu, kter\u00e1 ji zastavila: \u201eU\u017e nevypad\u00e1\u0161 jako \u010dlov\u011bk. Kam ses ztratila?\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sed\u011bla p\u0159ed obrazovkou dlouho do noci. V hlav\u011b j\u00ed v\u00ed\u0159ila ot\u00e1zka, kterou si nikdy nep\u0159ipustila \u2013 kdo vlastn\u011b je, kdy\u017e odlo\u017e\u00ed make-up a vypne kameru?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Zlom p\u0159i\u0161el ne\u010dekan\u011b. B\u011bhem dal\u0161\u00ed pl\u00e1novan\u00e9 \u00fapravy do\u0161lo ke komplikaci. Ne\u0161lo o \u017eivot ohro\u017euj\u00edc\u00ed situaci, ale o dost v\u00e1\u017enou, aby ji l\u00e9ka\u0159i varovali p\u0159ed dal\u0161\u00edmi z\u00e1sahy. N\u011bkolik t\u00fddn\u016f musela z\u016fstat doma, bez mo\u017enosti nat\u00e1\u010det, bez dokonal\u00e9ho vzhledu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Poprv\u00e9 po letech byla nucena d\u00edvat se na sebe bez filtr\u016f.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bylo to bolestiv\u00e9. C\u00edtila se pr\u00e1zdn\u00e1. Jako by cel\u00fd jej\u00ed \u017eivot st\u00e1l na obrazu, kter\u00fd se za\u010dal rozpadat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V t\u00e9 dob\u011b j\u00ed napsala star\u00e1 spolu\u017ea\u010dka. Nepos\u00edlala obdiv ani kritiku. Jen jednoduchou zpr\u00e1vu: \u201eChyb\u00ed mi ta Laura, kter\u00e1 se sm\u00e1la, i kdy\u017e m\u011bla vlasy rozcuchan\u00e9.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ta v\u011bta v n\u00ed n\u011bco probudila.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Za\u010dala doch\u00e1zet na terapii. Zpo\u010d\u00e1tku zdr\u00e1hav\u011b, s pocitem, \u017ee selhala. Postupn\u011b v\u0161ak objevovala, odkud jej\u00ed touha po dokonalosti pramen\u00ed \u2013 z pocitu nedostate\u010dnosti, z pot\u0159eby b\u00fdt p\u0159ij\u00edman\u00e1, z obavy, \u017ee oby\u010dejnost nesta\u010d\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sd\u00edlela sv\u016fj proces s ve\u0159ejnost\u00ed. Tentokr\u00e1t bez siln\u00e9ho l\u00ed\u010den\u00ed, bez stylizovan\u00fdch p\u00f3z. Mluvila o tlaku soci\u00e1ln\u00edch s\u00edt\u00ed, o z\u00e1vislosti na uzn\u00e1n\u00ed, o tom, jak snadn\u00e9 je ztratit se v obrazu, kter\u00fd si sami vytvo\u0159\u00edme.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Reakce byly p\u0159ekvapiv\u00e9. M\u00edsto \u0161oku p\u0159i\u0161la vlna podpory. Lid\u00e9 oce\u0148ovali jej\u00ed up\u0159\u00edmnost. P\u0159\u00edb\u011bh, kter\u00fd kdysi \u0161okoval tis\u00edce lid\u00ed kv\u016fli extr\u00e9mn\u00ed prom\u011bn\u011b, nyn\u00ed rezonoval z jin\u00e9ho d\u016fvodu \u2013 kv\u016fli odvaze p\u0159iznat, \u017ee cesta byla slep\u00e1.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Laura dnes \u0159\u00edk\u00e1, \u017ee st\u00e1le miluje kr\u00e1su, m\u00f3du a styl. Ale u\u017e nechce b\u00fdt panenkou. Nechce b\u00fdt nehybn\u00fdm ide\u00e1lem bez emoc\u00ed. Chce b\u00fdt \u017eenou, kter\u00e1 se m\u016f\u017ee sm\u00e1t, plakat, st\u00e1rnout.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kdysi byla oby\u010dejnou d\u00edvkou a snila o tom, \u017ee bude jako panenka.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dnes v\u00ed, \u017ee nejv\u011bt\u0161\u00ed s\u00edla spo\u010d\u00edv\u00e1 pr\u00e1v\u011b v oby\u010dejnosti \u2013 v nedokonalostech, kter\u00e9 z n\u00e1s d\u011blaj\u00ed lidi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A pr\u00e1v\u011b to je p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh, kter\u00fd skute\u010dn\u011b stoj\u00ed za to vypr\u00e1v\u011bt.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Kdy\u017e se Laura narodila, nikdo by ne\u0159ekl, \u017ee se jednou stane t\u00e9matem v\u00e1\u0161niv\u00fdch debat na internetu i v televizi. Byla to tich\u00e1 hol\u010di\u010dka \n [...]<\/a>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":4052,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4051","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-news"],"views":221,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4051","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=4051"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4051\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4053,"href":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4051\/revisions\/4053"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/4052"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=4051"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=4051"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=4051"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}