{"id":3381,"date":"2026-01-04T09:53:49","date_gmt":"2026-01-04T09:53:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/?p=3381"},"modified":"2026-01-04T09:53:50","modified_gmt":"2026-01-04T09:53:50","slug":"noste-co-chcete-bez-ohledu-na-vek","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/?p=3381","title":{"rendered":"\u201eNoste, co chcete \u2013 bez ohledu na v\u011bk!\u201c"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Tu v\u011btu jsem sly\u0161ela poprv\u00e9 od \u017eeny, kter\u00e1 m\u011bla vr\u00e1sky kolem o\u010d\u00ed a z\u00e1\u0159iv\u011b \u010derven\u00e9 boty. St\u00e1la p\u0159ede mnou ve v\u00fdloze mal\u00e9ho obchodu s oble\u010den\u00edm a sm\u00e1la se, jako by v\u011bd\u011bla n\u011bco, co ostatn\u00ed teprve objevuj\u00ed. V t\u00e9 chv\u00edli mi do\u0161lo, jak \u010dasto jsme se nau\u010dili obl\u00e9kat ne podle sebe, ale podle o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Od d\u011btstv\u00ed sly\u0161\u00edme pravidla. Co se hod\u00ed, co se nehod\u00ed. Co je \u201ep\u0159\u00edli\u0161 odv\u00e1\u017en\u00e9\u201c, \u201ep\u0159\u00edli\u0161 mlad\u00e9\u201c, \u201ep\u0159\u00edli\u0161 n\u00e1padn\u00e9\u201c. S p\u0159ib\u00fdvaj\u00edc\u00edmi roky se ten seznam prodlu\u017euje. Barvy se ztlumuj\u00ed, st\u0159ihy se zjednodu\u0161uj\u00ed a radost z oble\u010den\u00ed se n\u011bkde po cest\u011b ztr\u00e1c\u00ed. Ne proto, \u017ee by zmizela, ale proto\u017ee jsme ji sami odlo\u017eili stranou.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pamatuji si, jak jsem jednou st\u00e1la p\u0159ed sk\u0159\u00edn\u00ed a dr\u017eela v ruce \u0161aty, kter\u00e9 jsem milovala. Byly vesel\u00e9, lehk\u00e9, trochu bl\u00e1zniv\u00e9. A prvn\u00ed my\u0161lenka nebyla, jak se v nich c\u00edt\u00edm, ale co si pomysl\u00ed ostatn\u00ed. Jsou je\u0161t\u011b vhodn\u00e9? Nejsou u\u017e \u201emoc\u201c? V tu chv\u00edli jsem si uv\u011bdomila, jak hluboko ve mn\u011b tyhle ot\u00e1zky zako\u0159enily.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Oble\u010den\u00ed p\u0159itom nen\u00ed kost\u00fdm, kter\u00fd by m\u011bl skr\u00fdvat n\u00e1\u0161 v\u011bk. Je to jazyk. Zp\u016fsob, jak\u00fdm \u0159\u00edk\u00e1me sv\u011btu, kdo jsme. A ten jazyk se m\u011bn\u00ed, roste, n\u011bkdy je ti\u0161\u0161\u00ed, jindy hlasit\u011bj\u0161\u00ed. Nen\u00ed v\u00e1zan\u00fd na \u010d\u00edslo v ob\u010dansk\u00e9m pr\u016fkazu. Je v\u00e1zan\u00fd na odvahu b\u00fdt s\u00e1m sebou.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Vid\u011bla jsem \u017eeny, kter\u00e9 si ve dvaceti netroufly na barvy, a jin\u00e9, kter\u00e9 si v \u0161edes\u00e1ti obl\u00e9kly r\u016f\u017eov\u00fd kab\u00e1t a rozz\u00e1\u0159ily cel\u00e9 n\u00e1m\u011bst\u00ed. Vid\u011bla jsem mu\u017ee, kte\u0159\u00ed se cel\u00fd \u017eivot dr\u017eeli nen\u00e1padnosti, a pak si najednou dovolili klobouk nebo vzorovanou ko\u0161ili \u2014 a s nimi i nov\u00fd postoj k sob\u011b.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201eNoste, co chcete \u2013 bez ohledu na v\u011bk!\u201c nen\u00ed v\u00fdzva k rebelii proti m\u00f3d\u011b. Je to pozv\u00e1n\u00ed ke sm\u00ed\u0159en\u00ed se sebou. K tomu, abychom si znovu polo\u017eili jednoduchou ot\u00e1zku: l\u00edb\u00ed se mi to? C\u00edt\u00edm se v tom dob\u0159e? Pokud ano, pak je v\u0161echno ostatn\u00ed druho\u0159ad\u00e9.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u011bk n\u00e1m bere n\u011bkter\u00e9 v\u011bci, to je pravda. Ale d\u00e1v\u00e1 n\u00e1m n\u011bco cenn\u00e9ho: zku\u0161enost. A s n\u00ed i mo\u017enost p\u0159estat se omlouvat za to, k\u00fdm jsme. Oble\u010den\u00ed m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt radost\u00ed, hrou, vyj\u00e1d\u0159en\u00edm svobody. Nemus\u00ed b\u00fdt omezen\u00edm.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tak a\u017e p\u0159\u00ed\u0161t\u011b otev\u0159ete sk\u0159\u00ed\u0148 a zav\u00e1h\u00e1te, vzpome\u0148te si na tu v\u011btu. Noste, co chcete. Proto\u017ee styl nem\u00e1 v\u011bkovou hranici. A odvaha b\u00fdt vid\u011bn takov\u00fd, jak\u00fd jste, je v\u017edycky nad\u010dasov\u00e1.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Tu v\u011btu jsem sly\u0161ela poprv\u00e9 od \u017eeny, kter\u00e1 m\u011bla vr\u00e1sky kolem o\u010d\u00ed a z\u00e1\u0159iv\u011b \u010derven\u00e9 boty. St\u00e1la p\u0159ede mnou ve v\u00fdloze mal\u00e9ho obchodu \n [...]<\/a>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":3382,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3381","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-news"],"views":353,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3381","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=3381"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3381\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3383,"href":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3381\/revisions\/3383"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/3382"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=3381"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=3381"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=3381"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}