{"id":2909,"date":"2025-11-24T19:41:30","date_gmt":"2025-11-24T19:41:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/?p=2909"},"modified":"2025-11-24T19:41:31","modified_gmt":"2025-11-24T19:41:31","slug":"nikdy-jsem-se-nestydela-za-sve-telo-ano-je-mi-uz-sedesat-nejsem-zadna-modelka-z-obalky-casopisu-a-moje-postava-rozhodne-neni-idealni-ale-vzdy-jsem-se-prijimala-takova-jaka-jsem","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/?p=2909","title":{"rendered":"Nikdy jsem se nestyd\u011bla za sv\u00e9 t\u011blo. Ano, je mi u\u017e \u0161edes\u00e1t, nejsem \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e1 modelka z ob\u00e1lky \u010dasopisu, a moje postava rozhodn\u011b nen\u00ed ide\u00e1ln\u00ed \u2014 ale v\u017edy jsem se p\u0159ij\u00edmala takov\u00e1, jak\u00e1 jsem."},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Nikdy jsem nebyla \u017eena, kter\u00e1 tr\u00e1v\u00ed hodiny p\u0159ed zrcadlem a hled\u00e1 na sob\u011b chyby. Mo\u017en\u00e1 je to t\u00edm, \u017ee jsem vyrostla v dob\u011b, kdy se lid\u00e9 nestarali tolik o to, jak vypadaj\u00ed, ale sp\u00ed\u0161e o to, jak \u017eij\u00ed. Nebo t\u00edm, \u017ee m\u011b rodi\u010de u\u010dili v\u00e1\u017eit si s\u00edly, zdrav\u00ed a \u017eivota samotn\u00e9ho v\u00edc ne\u017e \u010d\u00edsel na v\u00e1ze. A mo\u017en\u00e1 je to tak\u00e9 t\u00edm, \u017ee jsem pro\u0161la v\u011bcmi, kter\u00e9 m\u011b nau\u010dily vid\u011bt kr\u00e1su i tam, kde ji dne\u0161n\u00ed sv\u011bt u\u017e nepozn\u00e1v\u00e1.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"832\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/harcum.am\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/image-100.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-2910\" srcset=\"https:\/\/harcum.am\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/image-100.png 832w, https:\/\/harcum.am\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/image-100-244x300.png 244w, https:\/\/harcum.am\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/image-100-768x945.png 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 832px) 100vw, 832px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Ano, je mi \u0161edes\u00e1t. Moje ple\u0165 nen\u00ed hladk\u00e1 jako porcel\u00e1n, na b\u0159i\u0161e m\u00e1m jizvy po porodu, a nohy m\u011b n\u011bkdy neposlechnou tak ochotn\u011b jako d\u0159\u00edv. Ale kdy\u017e se na sebe d\u00edv\u00e1m, vid\u00edm cel\u00fd sv\u016fj p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh \u2014 a to je n\u011bco, co \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e1 modelka na ob\u00e1lce nem\u00e1. Vid\u00edm \u017eenu, kter\u00e1 zvl\u00e1dla vychovat d\u011bti, p\u0159e\u017e\u00edt zklam\u00e1n\u00ed, postavit se znovu na nohy, sm\u00e1t se i plakat, milovat a b\u00fdt milov\u00e1na. Kdy\u017e si p\u0159edstav\u00edm, \u017ee by moje t\u011blo m\u011blo b\u00fdt \u201edokonal\u00e9\u201c, skoro se mi chce sm\u00e1t. V\u017edy\u0165 pr\u00e1v\u011b jeho nedokonalosti mi p\u0159ipom\u00ednaj\u00ed, \u017ee jsem \u017eila naplno.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dnes \u017eijeme v dob\u011b, kdy se na n\u00e1s ze v\u0161ech stran val\u00ed obr\u00e1zky upraven\u00fdch tv\u00e1\u0159\u00ed, vyretu\u0161ovan\u00fdch postav a um\u011ble vytvo\u0159en\u00fdch \u201estandard\u016f kr\u00e1sy\u201c. \u017deny m\u00e9ho v\u011bku se mnohdy boj\u00ed obl\u00e9knout plavky, sukn\u011b, nebo dokonce jen usm\u00e1t se na fotce. Symptomem dne\u0161n\u00ed spole\u010dnosti je, \u017ee se srovn\u00e1v\u00e1me s lidmi, kte\u0159\u00ed ani neexistuj\u00ed \u2014 s digit\u00e1ln\u011b vytvo\u0159en\u00fdmi ide\u00e1ly, kter\u00e9 nemaj\u00ed vr\u00e1sky, pup\u00ednky ani skute\u010dn\u00fd \u017eivot. Ale j\u00e1 jsem se rozhodla b\u00fdt jin\u00e1. Nep\u0159ijmout tuto hru a neob\u011btovat sv\u00e9 sebev\u011bdom\u00ed n\u011bjak\u00e9mu m\u00f3dn\u00edmu trendu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Neznamen\u00e1 to, \u017ee bych se o sebe nestarala. Naopak \u2014 m\u00e1m r\u00e1da sv\u00e9 dlouh\u00e9 proch\u00e1zky, zdrav\u00e9 j\u00eddlo, mas\u00e1\u017ee a chv\u00edle, kdy si dop\u0159eju p\u00e9\u010di jen pro sebe. Ale d\u011bl\u00e1m to proto, \u017ee sv\u00e9 t\u011blo miluji, ne proto, \u017ee bych ho cht\u011bla zm\u011bnit. Chci, aby m\u011b uneslo je\u0161t\u011b mnoho let, aby m\u011b prov\u00e1zelo \u017eivotem co nejd\u00e9le, a aby mi dovolilo vychutnat si v\u0161echny drobn\u00e9 radosti sv\u011bta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A v\u00edte co? Kdy\u017e se dnes pod\u00edv\u00e1m do zrcadla, nevid\u00edm \u017eenu, kter\u00e1 st\u00e1rne. Vid\u00edm \u017eenu, kter\u00e1 roste \u2014 v moudrosti, v klidu, v sebejistot\u011b. Ka\u017ed\u00e1 vr\u00e1ska mi p\u0159ipom\u00edn\u00e1 chv\u00edli, kdy jsem se sm\u00e1la, kdy jsem plakala, kdy jsem milovala tak siln\u011b, \u017ee to t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 bolelo. Ka\u017ed\u00e9 kilo nav\u00edc je d\u016fkazem toho, \u017ee jsem u\u017e d\u00e1vno p\u0159estala bojovat se sebou a za\u010dala \u017e\u00edt v m\u00edru.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nikdy jsem se nestyd\u011bla za sv\u00e9 t\u011blo a nikdy nebudu. Proto\u017ee to t\u011blo je domovem m\u00e9 du\u0161e, m\u00fdm domem, m\u00fdm spole\u010dn\u00edkem. A domov se nem\u00e1 nen\u00e1vid\u011bt \u2014 domov se m\u00e1 ct\u00edt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A pokud mohu n\u011bco \u0159\u00edct \u017een\u00e1m v\u0161ech v\u011bk\u016f: p\u0159ijm\u011bte se. Ne\u010dekejte na ide\u00e1ln\u00ed okam\u017eik, ide\u00e1ln\u00ed v\u00e1hu nebo ide\u00e1ln\u00ed postavu. \u017divot ut\u00edk\u00e1 p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 rychle na to, abychom ho tr\u00e1vily nespokojenost\u00ed. Oslavte sv\u00e9 t\u011blo \u2014 proto\u017ee d\u00edky n\u011bmu m\u016f\u017eete chodit, c\u00edtit, obj\u00edmat, milovat a \u017e\u00edt. A to je p\u0159ece ta nejv\u011bt\u0161\u00ed kr\u00e1sa.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Nikdy jsem nebyla \u017eena, kter\u00e1 tr\u00e1v\u00ed hodiny p\u0159ed zrcadlem a hled\u00e1 na sob\u011b chyby. 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