{"id":222,"date":"2025-06-09T18:13:22","date_gmt":"2025-06-09T17:13:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/?p=222"},"modified":"2025-06-09T18:13:22","modified_gmt":"2025-06-09T17:13:22","slug":"tento-otec-se-vice-nez-240-tetovanimi-byl-odsuzovan-jako-monstrum-a-spatny-otec-kvuli-svemu-vzhledu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/?p=222","title":{"rendered":"Tento otec, se v\u00edce ne\u017e 240 tetov\u00e1n\u00edmi, byl odsuzov\u00e1n jako \u201emonstrum\u201c a \u201e\u0161patn\u00fd otec\u201c kv\u016fli sv\u00e9mu vzhledu."},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Ve spole\u010dnosti, kde vzhled \u010dasto p\u0159evy\u0161uje charakter, se objevuj\u00ed p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy, kter\u00e9 zcela bouraj\u00ed p\u0159edsudky. Toto je pr\u00e1v\u011b takov\u00fd p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh \u2013 p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh Sylvaina, otce z Francie, 39 let, jeho\u017e t\u011blo je zcela pokryto v\u00edce ne\u017e 240 tetov\u00e1n\u00edmi, v\u010detn\u011b obli\u010deje, hlavy a dokonce i o\u010dn\u00edch bulv.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mnoz\u00ed ho odsuzuj\u00ed. Naz\u00fdvaj\u00ed ho \u201emonstrem\u201c, \u201e\u0161patn\u00fdm p\u0159\u00edkladem\u201c pro d\u011bti, \u201enebezpe\u010d\u00edm pro spole\u010dnost\u201c. Ale to, co ve\u0159ejnost \u010dasto nevid\u00ed, je skute\u010dn\u00fd, hluboce lidsk\u00fd p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh skryt\u00fd pod tou k\u016f\u017e\u00ed. P\u0159\u00edb\u011bh bolesti, p\u0159e\u017eit\u00ed, znovuzrozen\u00ed a l\u00e1sky, kter\u00e1 nezn\u00e1 hranic.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Odsuzov\u00e1n podle vzhledu<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ka\u017edodenn\u00ed \u017eivot Sylvaina je pln\u00fd pohled\u016f, tich\u00fdch \u0161epot\u016f, pochybnost\u00ed. V obchod\u011b, v parku, ve \u0161kole \u2013 lid\u00e9 reaguj\u00ed. N\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed rodi\u010de odtahuj\u00ed d\u011bti stranou, jin\u00ed ho nat\u00e1\u010dej\u00ed nebo se mu posm\u00edvaj\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201eLid\u00e9 nevid\u00ed otce, nevid\u00ed \u010dlov\u011bka. Vid\u00ed jen mou k\u016f\u017ei. Jen to, co je pro n\u011b zvl\u00e1\u0161tn\u00ed,\u201c \u0159\u00edk\u00e1 Sylvain.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ale to, co oni nev\u00ed, je, \u017ee p\u0159ed deseti lety vypadal jeho \u017eivot \u00fapln\u011b jinak.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

P\u0159ed tetov\u00e1n\u00edm: \u017eivot ve st\u00ednu<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sylvain byl d\u0159\u00edve \u201enorm\u00e1ln\u00ed\u201c \u010dlov\u011bk podle v\u0161ech standard\u016f \u2013 pracoval v kancel\u00e1\u0159i, nosil ko\u0161ile, \u017eil klidn\u00fd, nen\u00e1padn\u00fd \u017eivot. Ale uvnit\u0159 byl pr\u00e1zdn\u00fd. Bojoval s depres\u00ed, \u00fazkost\u00ed a pocitem, \u017ee je neviditeln\u00fd.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201e\u017dil jsem, ale nec\u00edtil jsem se \u017eiv\u00fd. D\u00edval jsem se na \u010dlov\u011bka v zrcadle, kter\u00fd jsem nebyl j\u00e1.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Prvn\u00ed tetov\u00e1n\u00ed p\u0159i\u0161lo jako osobn\u00ed terapie. Ne proto, aby p\u0159itahoval pozornost, ale jako pokus z\u00edskat zp\u011bt sv\u016fj hlas, t\u011blo, identitu. S postupem let se tetov\u00e1n\u00ed stalo pam\u011bt\u00ed na k\u016f\u017ei \u2013 ka\u017ed\u00e9 m\u00e1 v\u00fdznam, ka\u017ed\u00e9 je sou\u010d\u00e1st\u00ed jeho cesty.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u011blo jako sv\u011bdectv\u00ed<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Jeho transformace nenastala p\u0159es noc. Rozhodnut\u00ed tetovat se i na obli\u010deji a o\u010d\u00edch nebylo vzpourou, ale deklarac\u00ed: \u201eTohle jsem j\u00e1, bez masek.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pro n\u011bkter\u00e9 je vzhled Sylvaina extr\u00e9mn\u00ed. Ale pro n\u011bj je to osvobozen\u00ed. M\u00edsto toho, aby se skr\u00fdval za spole\u010densky p\u0159ijateln\u00fd vzhled, rozhodl se \u017e\u00edt svou pravdu \u2013 viditeln\u011b a odv\u00e1\u017en\u011b.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Otec, kter\u00fd bour\u00e1 stereotypy<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

To, co nejv\u00edce bour\u00e1 p\u0159edsudky, je jeho role otce. Jeho syn Liam, 7 let, ho nevid\u00ed jako monstrum. Vid\u00ed t\u00e1tu, kter\u00fd ho miluje, \u010dte mu poh\u00e1dky, hraje si s n\u00edm a ut\u011b\u0161uje ho, kdy\u017e pl\u00e1\u010de.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201eM\u00e9mu synovi je jedno, moje tetov\u00e1n\u00ed. Pro n\u011bj jsem t\u00e1ta, kter\u00fd je v\u017edy tady,\u201c \u0159\u00edk\u00e1 Sylvain.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A zat\u00edmco n\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed ho odsuzuj\u00ed z d\u00e1lky, pr\u00e1v\u011b on d\u00e1v\u00e1 v\u0161echnu svou l\u00e1sku, trp\u011blivost a pozornost \u2013 n\u011bco, co nen\u00ed vid\u011bt na povrchu, ale c\u00edt\u00ed se hluboko.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Fotografie, kter\u00e1 \u0161okovala internet<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Jedna fotografie \u2013 Sylvain v parku, jak obj\u00edm\u00e1 syna \u2013 se stala vir\u00e1ln\u00ed. N\u011bkdo ji sd\u00edlel s titulkem: \u201eM\u011bl by takov\u00fd \u010dlov\u011bk b\u00fdt otcem?\u201c Internet explodoval koment\u00e1\u0159i. N\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed ho podpo\u0159ili, ale mnoz\u00ed byli pln\u00ed odsudk\u016f.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sylvain neml\u010del. Odpov\u011bd\u011bl otev\u0159en\u00fdm dopisem:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201eNeomlouv\u00e1m se za to, jak vypad\u00e1m. Jsem t\u00e1ta, kter\u00fd miluje sv\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b, kter\u00fd ho poslouch\u00e1, kter\u00fd je v\u017edy tady. Pokud to nen\u00ed dost na to, abych byl dobr\u00fdm otcem, pak mo\u017en\u00e1 by se m\u011bla p\u0159ehodnotit spole\u010dnost, ne j\u00e1.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hlas p\u0159ijet\u00ed<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Od t\u00e9 doby za\u010dal Sylvain mluvit ve\u0159ejn\u011b \u2013 na \u0161kol\u00e1ch, na f\u00f3rech, prost\u0159ednictv\u00edm m\u00e9di\u00ed. Stal se hlasem v\u0161ech, kte\u0159\u00ed se c\u00edt\u00ed jin\u00ed, t\u011bch, kte\u0159\u00ed jsou odsuzov\u00e1ni jen podle vzhledu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Zalo\u017eil tak\u00e9 organizaci pro teenagery, kte\u0159\u00ed jsou ob\u011b\u0165mi \u0161ikany, kde mohou prost\u0159ednictv\u00edm um\u011bn\u00ed, tetov\u00e1n\u00ed nebo hudby vyj\u00e1d\u0159it svou bolest a identitu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nejen otec \u2013 ale i inspirace<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sylvain nen\u00ed dokonal\u00fd. Ale je skute\u010dn\u00fd. P\u0159\u00edtomn\u00fd. Starostliv\u00fd. L\u00e1skypln\u00fd. Je d\u016fkazem, \u017ee tetov\u00e1n\u00ed ned\u011bl\u00e1 \u010dlov\u011bka \u2013 srdce d\u011bl\u00e1.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Ve spole\u010dnosti, kde vzhled \u010dasto p\u0159evy\u0161uje charakter, se objevuj\u00ed p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy, kter\u00e9 zcela bouraj\u00ed p\u0159edsudky. Toto je pr\u00e1v\u011b takov\u00fd p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh \u2013 p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh Sylvaina, otce \n [...]<\/a>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":223,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-222","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-news"],"views":398,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/222","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=222"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/222\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":224,"href":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/222\/revisions\/224"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/223"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=222"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=222"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=222"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}