{"id":2033,"date":"2025-09-23T20:52:43","date_gmt":"2025-09-23T19:52:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/?p=2033"},"modified":"2025-09-23T20:52:44","modified_gmt":"2025-09-23T19:52:44","slug":"bezohledny-manzel-vyhnal-svou-zenu-i-s-novorozenaty-o-mnoho-let-pozdeji-zaklepal-na-jeji-dvere-a-to-co-nasledovalo-nikdo-necekal","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/?p=2033","title":{"rendered":"Bezohledn\u00fd man\u017eel vyhnal svou \u017eenu i s novoroze\u0148aty O mnoho let pozd\u011bji zaklepal na jej\u00ed dve\u0159e a to co n\u00e1sledovalo nikdo ne\u010dekal"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Kdy\u017e m\u011b tehdy vyhodil z na\u0161eho bytu st\u00e1la jsem na chodb\u011b s dv\u011bma novorozen\u00fdmi d\u011btmi v n\u00e1ru\u010d\u00ed a slzami v o\u010d\u00edch Byla noc venku pr\u0161elo a j\u00e1 jsem nev\u011bd\u011bla kam j\u00edt Nem\u011bla jsem u sebe skoro nic Jen deku pro miminka ta\u0161ku s plenkami a zlomen\u00e9 srdce<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"682\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/harcum.am\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/image-41.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-2034\" srcset=\"https:\/\/harcum.am\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/image-41.png 682w, https:\/\/harcum.am\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/image-41-200x300.png 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 682px) 100vw, 682px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>M\u016fj man\u017eel se zm\u011bnil kr\u00e1tce po porodu D\u0159\u00edv byl klidn\u00fd laskav\u00fd mu\u017e ale jakmile p\u0159i\u0161ly d\u011bti jako by nezvl\u00e1dl tlak k\u0159ik bezesn\u00e9 noci zodpov\u011bdnost Za\u010dal b\u00fdt hrub\u00fd a chladn\u00fd A\u017e jednoho ve\u010dera kdy\u017e jsem se ho zeptala jestli by mi pomohl s krmen\u00edm \u0159ekl \u017ee u\u017e toho m\u00e1 dost a a\u0165 vypadnu<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A j\u00e1 opravdu ode\u0161la<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ne kv\u016fli slabosti ale proto\u017ee jsem v\u011bd\u011bla \u017ee takov\u00e9 m\u00edsto nen\u00ed bezpe\u010dn\u00e9 pro m\u011b ani pro m\u00e9 d\u011bti Utekla jsem k sest\u0159e kter\u00e1 mi poskytla st\u0159echu nad hlavou za\u010dala jsem si postupn\u011b budovat nov\u00fd \u017eivot pracovala jsem ve\u010der studovala online a starala se o d\u011bti jak nejl\u00e9pe jsem um\u011bla<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Roky plynuly Synov\u00e9 rostli a st\u00e1vali se z nich siln\u00ed a citliv\u00ed mlad\u00ed mu\u017ei Nikdy jsem o jejich otci nemluvila \u0161patn\u011b \u0158\u00edkala jsem jim jen \u017ee n\u00e1s opustil a \u017ee jsme to zvl\u00e1dli sami<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A pak po t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 \u0161estn\u00e1cti letech n\u011bkdo zazvonil u dve\u0159\u00ed<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>St\u00e1l tam on Star\u0161\u00ed se\u0161l\u00fd v o\u010d\u00edch smutek a nejistota V ruce dr\u017eel malou ta\u0161ku a dlouho se odhodl\u00e1val promluvit Nakonec jen \u0159ekl \u201eV\u00edm \u017ee nem\u00e1m pr\u00e1vo t\u011b o nic \u017e\u00e1dat ale pot\u0159ebuju t\u011b vid\u011bt Pot\u0159ebuju vid\u011bt je\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Byla jsem v \u0161oku V\u0161echny ty roky kdy jsme se lopotili bez jeho pomoci najednou vyst\u0159\u00eddal tenhle tich\u00fd okam\u017eik pln\u00fd rozpak\u016f a bolesti<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Synov\u00e9 st\u00e1li opod\u00e1l Nev\u011bd\u011bli kdo to je Ne\u010dekali ho stejn\u011b jako j\u00e1<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pozvala jsem ho dovnit\u0159 Ne ze soucitu ale kv\u016fli sob\u011b Pot\u0159ebovala jsem v\u011bd\u011bt pro\u010d pro\u010d to tehdy ud\u011blal Pro\u010d n\u00e1s nechal<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Vypr\u00e1v\u011bl p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh o selh\u00e1n\u00ed o depresi o pocitu \u017ee na otcovstv\u00ed nebyl p\u0159ipraven o \u00fat\u011bku o l\u00edtosti \u0158\u00edkal \u017ee m\u011b ka\u017ed\u00fd den hledal na soci\u00e1ln\u00edch s\u00edt\u00edch \u017ee sledoval jak synov\u00e9 rostou z d\u00e1lky ale nikdy nena\u0161el odvahu se ozvat<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Neodpustila jsem mu hned Ani po tom ve\u010deru Ale n\u011bco ve mn\u011b se pohnulo Ne kv\u016fli n\u011bmu ale kv\u016fli kluk\u016fm kte\u0159\u00ed m\u011bli pr\u00e1vo sly\u0161et jeho p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh a rozhodnout se sami<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dnes s n\u00e1mi ne\u017eije ale ob\u010das p\u0159ijde na n\u00e1v\u0161t\u011bvu Syna pozve na k\u00e1vu nab\u00eddne pomoc Kluci jsou opatrn\u00ed ale d\u00e1vaj\u00ed mu \u0161anci<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A j\u00e1 pochopila jednu v\u011bc Lid\u00e9 se m\u011bn\u00ed n\u011bkdy k hor\u0161\u00edmu n\u011bkdy k lep\u0161\u00edmu Ale minulost nezm\u011bn\u00ed\u0161 M\u016f\u017ee\u0161 jen rozhodnout jak s n\u00ed nalo\u017e\u00ed\u0161 d\u00e1l<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>J\u00e1 jsem se rozhodla \u017e\u00edt bez nen\u00e1visti Proto\u017ee s\u00edla nen\u00ed v pomst\u011b ale v tom neztratit srdce ani kdy\u017e ti ho n\u011bkdo kdysi rozbil<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Kdy\u017e m\u011b tehdy vyhodil z na\u0161eho bytu st\u00e1la jsem na chodb\u011b s dv\u011bma novorozen\u00fdmi d\u011btmi v 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