{"id":2030,"date":"2025-09-23T20:46:12","date_gmt":"2025-09-23T19:46:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/?p=2030"},"modified":"2025-09-23T20:46:13","modified_gmt":"2025-09-23T19:46:13","slug":"dvojcata-se-prave-narodila-a-rodina-se-rozpadla-krute-obvineni-manzela-ktere-vsem-vzalo-dech","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/?p=2030","title":{"rendered":"Dvoj\u010data se pr\u00e1v\u011b narodila a rodina se rozpadla krut\u00e9 obvin\u011bn\u00ed man\u017eela kter\u00e9 v\u0161em vzalo dech"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

M\u011bly to b\u00fdt nej\u0161\u0165astn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed dny v na\u0161em \u017eivot\u011b Po m\u011bs\u00edc\u00edch o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed bolesti a radosti jsme kone\u010dn\u011b dr\u017eeli v n\u00e1ru\u010d\u00ed na\u0161e dv\u011b novorozen\u00e9 d\u011bti Dvoj\u010data Sofii a Maty\u00e1\u0161e Mal\u00e9 k\u0159ehk\u00e9 bytosti kter\u00e9 von\u011bly nov\u00fdm za\u010d\u00e1tkem Byla jsem vy\u010derpan\u00e1 ale \u0161\u0165astn\u00e1 Alespo\u0148 do chv\u00edle ne\u017e m\u016fj man\u017eel vyslovil n\u011bco co u\u017e ne\u0161lo vz\u00edt zp\u011bt<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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St\u00e1l u postele v porodnici d\u00edval se na d\u011bti s v\u00fdrazem kter\u00fd jsem nedok\u00e1zala p\u0159e\u010d\u00edst A pak ti\u0161e pronesl \u201eN\u011bco tady nesed\u00ed\u2026 nejsou moje\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nejd\u0159\u00edv jsem si myslela \u017ee \u017eertuje \u017ee je v \u0161oku z cel\u00e9 situace Ale kdy\u017e se jeho slova opakovala a stala se chladn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed a tvrd\u0161\u00ed pochopila jsem \u017ee to mysl\u00ed v\u00e1\u017en\u011b<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Obvinil m\u011b z nev\u011bry p\u0159\u00edmo p\u0159ede mnou p\u0159ed sestrami i l\u00e9ka\u0159em Tvrdil \u017ee d\u011bti nevypadaj\u00ed jako on \u017ee c\u00edt\u00ed \u017ee byl zrazen \u017de pr\u00fd si to cel\u00e9 d\u00e1valo smysl zp\u011btn\u011b \u2013 moje \u00fanava moje ticho moje v\u00fdmluvy v posledn\u00edch m\u011bs\u00edc\u00edch t\u011bhotenstv\u00ed<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Byla jsem p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 ot\u0159esen\u00e1 na to abych reagovala Plakala jsem ale nebyly to slzy poporodn\u00edho \u0161t\u011bst\u00ed ale naprost\u00e9 bezmoci Zat\u00edmco jsem obj\u00edmala sv\u00e9 d\u011bti on ode\u0161el a nechal m\u011b tam samotnou s ot\u00e1zkami na kter\u00e9 jsem nikdy nem\u011bla odpov\u011bdi p\u0159ipraven\u00e9<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Po n\u011bkolika dnech ml\u010den\u00ed po\u017eadoval testy otcovstv\u00ed Ud\u011blali jsme je A v\u00fdsledek byl jednozna\u010dn\u00fd \u2014 ano byly to jeho d\u011bti<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Myslela jsem \u017ee se po tom v\u0161em omluv\u00ed \u017ee se vr\u00e1t\u00ed a v\u0161e naprav\u00edme Ale jeho ego bylo siln\u011bj\u0161\u00ed ne\u017e pravda Ne\u0159ekl promi\u0148 Nezeptal se jak mi je Ani se nezeptal jak se maj\u00ed d\u011bti Jeho obvin\u011bn\u00ed z\u016fstalo viset mezi n\u00e1mi jako n\u011bco co ne\u0161lo odvolat<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Na\u0161e rodina se rozpadla ne kv\u016fli nev\u011b\u0159e ale kv\u016fli nedostatku d\u016fv\u011bry Kv\u016fli tomu \u017ee ve chv\u00edli kdy m\u011b m\u011bl dr\u017eet za ruku a b\u00fdt oporou m\u011b m\u00edsto toho obvinil a ode\u0161el<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dnes se star\u00e1m o dvoj\u010data sama Pom\u00e1h\u00e1 mi m\u00e1 matka a p\u00e1r bl\u00edzk\u00fdch p\u0159\u00e1tel V\u011b\u0159\u00edm \u017ee l\u00e1ska kterou jim d\u00e1v\u00e1m je siln\u011bj\u0161\u00ed ne\u017e bolest se kterou p\u0159i\u0161ly na sv\u011bt<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A jestli se pt\u00e1te co bylo krut\u011bj\u0161\u00ed \u2014 porod nebo slova m\u00e9ho man\u017eela \u2014 odpov\u011b\u010f je jednoduch\u00e1 Bolest t\u011bla se zahoj\u00ed ale slova kter\u00e1 padla z\u016fst\u00e1vaj\u00ed nav\u017edy<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mo\u017en\u00e1 si n\u011bkdy uv\u011bdom\u00ed co ztratil Ale j\u00e1 u\u017e se neohl\u00ed\u017e\u00edm Jsem matka a to je dnes moje jedin\u00e1 jistota kterou mi nikdo nevezme<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"M\u011bly to b\u00fdt nej\u0161\u0165astn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed dny v na\u0161em \u017eivot\u011b Po m\u011bs\u00edc\u00edch o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed bolesti a radosti jsme kone\u010dn\u011b dr\u017eeli v n\u00e1ru\u010d\u00ed na\u0161e dv\u011b novorozen\u00e9 d\u011bti \n [...]<\/a>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2031,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2030","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-news"],"views":547,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2030","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2030"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2030\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2032,"href":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2030\/revisions\/2032"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/2031"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2030"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2030"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/harcum.am\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2030"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}